I cannot believe this is happening to me.  Ever since I was engaged to Johnny things have not been quite right.  At first I felt as a passion that I finally fulfilled like girlish childhood dreams.  But when the honeymoon phase was over I was faced with the harsh reality of planning a wedding and also being committed for a lifetime to Johnny.  Don’t get me wrong, John is a great guy and I’m still happy that said yes.  It’s just that in the past few months the process of planning a wedding with him and thinking of buying groomsmen gifts, his mother, and all three of his sisters has been a very trying experience for me.

It all started when we were debating on who to invite at how personal wedding party.  While I’m a very outgoing person with tons of friends, Johnny is quite opposite.  I was thinking of a huge wedding party with perhaps five bridesmaids and the same number of the corresponding groomsmen.  But when Jonny this he doesn’t think he’d have five friends to ask to be in his wedding.  And he also mentioned that we certainly can not afford to buy different sets of bridesmaids gifts, and groomsmen gifts for everyone in a wedding party.  He also reminded me that there will be ushers, various wedding attendants, ring bearer gifts, and also a flower girl that would be involved in a wedding.

When I first heard this was a shock to my system.  I always wanted a huge wedding with all my friends there to support me.  I have been bridesmaids too many times in my life present this vision goal unfulfilled.  Having talked it over with my sisters and my mother.  I have decided to have a smaller wedding party is okay afterall.  And the issue at the cost of the various wedding gifts, my parents has graciously offered to pay for most of those gifts.  Have talked to Johnny about this his stance relaxed and when we’re moving on to the blissful wedding that I have always wanted.

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